By:
KEVIN ABUJE
KEVIN ABUJE
Many have expected marriage life to be a walk in the park. They strongly believe that their partners are the only angel in their small heavens ; perfect in all aspects of life. Why do they believe in this? This always arises because during the engagement period, what we may also call; dating days, a partner may have really exposed the good side of his. Drawing a very beautiful and big picture in the partner’s mind of who you can be once in a marriage life. Spouses will always handle themselves with a lot of humility and patience. But again, people should know that for any coin that lies on the ground, one of its faces is facing the sun while the other faces the ground.
Finally, these people marry and are
committed to making a family. With time,
it is revealed that among angels exists a demon. One may come to realize that his
or her partner
doesn’t know how
to manage finance.
Someone’s who doesn’t want to see money with two eyes. Similarly,
one may also realize that
may be the
wife doesn’t know
how to prepare
fish well. This is a weakness. Some are even
surprised to see their
partners not regular attendants of
church or mosque
as they may
have expected. There are many things
that boils to
the surface once
people have gone
deep into marriage
life.
Therefore, the
question is; should
we quit from
our families because
of the weaknesses
that lie within
our marriage partners?
Our answer is NO. people
should be aware
of the fact
that no one
is perfect. One can be
good in a
particular area and
at the same
time bad or poor
in another area. People
should learn to appreciate and
love our partners
in their strengths
and weaknesses. After you have identified a
particular weakness in
your partner, wisely find
for the most
appropriate way of
teaching, advising and correcting
it. This will help a great deal.
abujekevin15@gmail.com
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